Collaboration and Negotiation: The Key to Therapeutic Lifestyle Change

March 6, 2026

Counseling patients on behavior change is an important skill that traditional medical training does not emphasize. Most practitioners are trained in the expert approach to handle problems, which is useful in the acute care setting. However, in the case of chronic disease, a coach approach is more effective. This approach allows the patient to reflect on his or her own motivators for change as well as obstacles hindering the change. Changing from the expert approach to the coach approach is contingent on the lifestyle medicine practitioner sharing information when the patient is ready to receive it, listening mindfully, asking open-ended questions, treating problems as opportunities to learn and grow, and encouraging patients to take responsibility for their actions. By collaborating with the patient, the practitioner can guide patients to find solutions to the problems they are facing and foster an environment that leads patients to self-discovery, accepting responsibility for their behaviors, and ultimately, achieving goals that result in healthier daily habits. As a framework and a guide, lifestyle medicine practitioners can use a 5-step cycle of collaboration and a ladder of behavior change when working with patients on behavior change.

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